When we are young, we tend to have high demands on people and things as if the world is revolving around us and we just wait for the right things fall in the schedule by its right timing. After a while, we realise good people and things don't just easily come by despite the fact that we have put in effort to get them in our plan. Then, frustration and disappointment negate us from looking at the situation in another positive perspective. We begin to lose focus, get distracted, crossing off more and more things from the list in order to tip-toe in existing position without losing those grips, and eventually giving up and leaving our hope to fate. I meet this guy who is very vibrant, positive, and confident about his life. He once told me about the initiative to be closer to our target is to learn about the target - which it is more than just a dream and you are learning a way to achieve it one day. Don't you get question from people of the plan to use the money you win f...