Pursuit of perfection
When we are young, we tend to have high demands on people and things as if the world is revolving around us and we just wait for the right things fall in the schedule by its right timing. After a while, we realise good people and things don't just easily come by despite the fact that we have put in effort to get them in our plan. Then, frustration and disappointment negate us from looking at the situation in another positive perspective. We begin to lose focus, get distracted, crossing off more and more things from the list in order to tip-toe in existing position without losing those grips, and eventually giving up and leaving our hope to fate.
I meet this guy who is very vibrant, positive, and confident about his life. He once told me about the initiative to be closer to our target is to learn about the target - which it is more than just a dream and you are learning a way to achieve it one day. Don't you get question from people of the plan to use the money you win from striking lottery? It's true to plan it even without having them in your pocket because even if you win a million one day, that kind of excitement might fascinate you for a while and when you regain your conscious, boy oh what should I do next?
You would not know this man helps me express and deal with frustration sometimes. We argue, debate, and reason each other when our perception are diverged - but we don't dramatically fight, wail, or cry, as he strongly believes throwing tantrums won't solve any problems and communication is the solution instead. I thought guys normally would run away from communicating but not this guy, and I like the way he takes things seriously and not personally. He would spend time to talk and listen when I start being emotional and lose my patience. Guess the people are right about to have a partner you could learn things from.
He was once being asked by a group of friends of what does he like about me, and without hesitation and further explanation, sincerely he nodded and replied, she's perfect for me. Good men are not meant to be found but they can potentially be developed and grown with you in a relationship.
I meet this guy who is very vibrant, positive, and confident about his life. He once told me about the initiative to be closer to our target is to learn about the target - which it is more than just a dream and you are learning a way to achieve it one day. Don't you get question from people of the plan to use the money you win from striking lottery? It's true to plan it even without having them in your pocket because even if you win a million one day, that kind of excitement might fascinate you for a while and when you regain your conscious, boy oh what should I do next?
You would not know this man helps me express and deal with frustration sometimes. We argue, debate, and reason each other when our perception are diverged - but we don't dramatically fight, wail, or cry, as he strongly believes throwing tantrums won't solve any problems and communication is the solution instead. I thought guys normally would run away from communicating but not this guy, and I like the way he takes things seriously and not personally. He would spend time to talk and listen when I start being emotional and lose my patience. Guess the people are right about to have a partner you could learn things from.
He was once being asked by a group of friends of what does he like about me, and without hesitation and further explanation, sincerely he nodded and replied, she's perfect for me. Good men are not meant to be found but they can potentially be developed and grown with you in a relationship.
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