Coffeeholic's Hour

距离重看《新不了情》电影，已经是十年前的事了。以前就只专注于故事的流程且感人的情节; 现在反而觉得电影里头的演员，演技，金句，是不可多得的人生演绎。 人生篇 健康从来就不是每个人来到这个世界都能理所当然拥有的。当你在埋怨世界对你有多不公时，别忘了有些人每天...

I have challenges at understanding instructions.  First, I could not register rules in list or in sequences.  Second, I stop listen to rules immediately when they sound stupid or complicated.  Third, who cares about rules? Last, who started rules in the first place? The resistant behaviour is not all about being rebellious or sign of not listening. Also, it's not about the tendency of giving commands rather than receiving one. Let's put it in this way - it's hard to follow certain rules which are creatively complicated by the one who tasks you. Make much sense? To me, it's like what do you want me to achieve; and what shouldn't I do to breach against law or compliance or just the barriers. Recently, we were participating in team-building event. The weather was hot and humid, the host was impatient while the team were too noisy and excited - so most of the time I couldn't focus on what needed to be done for each round. Our team tended to wi...